Gay Spanking Blog

As we ate a light Christmas day lunch, Mark did ask for one other gift. He asked if he could have a Christmas spanking, the kind where I warm him up slowly and take him to LaLa Land. I told him to undress and then go to the toy drawer and pick out two instruments of torture he would like me to use. While he was agonizing over his choices, I brought a straight-backed armless chair into our room and put it by the bay window just to the side of our bed. He finally brought back the small square paddle that has smooth black leather on one side and a fur-like covering on the other. he then handed me the heavy strap, 14 inches long by 4 inches wide and attached to a wooden handle. It is a wicked, painful device that Mark mostly doesn’t like. I was a little surprised he selected it.

I sat on the chair and pulled my naked slave-boy over my lap so that his head and shoulders reached the side of the mattress. I started with my hand, carefully spreading the red hand marks evenly over his ass

cheeks and then the backs of his thighs. I stopped often and fingered his ass, testing his reaction to the spanking. The hand spanking increased in intensity until my hand began to hurt. Regardless I kept at it for a while. When his wiggling slowed a bit I switched to the small paddle. Her wiggling immediately increased back
to sadist-pleasing levels while my hand stopped stinging. Mark jumped even more when I hit the backs of his thighs with the hard leather. I confess I like it when it’s hard for him to take. I worked him over for about 10 more minutes, spreading the effect around until once
again he began to go quiet on me.

I knew he was getting close to getting loopy so I changed to the big strap. I again started lightly but soon was popping him pretty good. I moved him from my lap to face down on the bed so I could have more room to swing the strap and hit my intended target. At this point it was “let the whipping REALLY begin!”. The percussion of the strap smacking his ass literally rang in my ears and his whimpers and moans were a sweet melody.

Checking in with him I said, “Merry Christmas, slave-boy. Is there anything else you would like?”

I knew he was gone when he said, “I would like more, Sir.”

I went back to work on him, harder than ever and marveled at how much he could take and how much he was ‘into’ it. Each time the thick leather strap struck his butt he lifted it to meet the leather. I then began to strap his thighs and he didn’t even cry out. This was
the ultimate test of how deep he he’d gone into sub-space. He was light-years away. Finally, exhausted and satisfied with my handiwork, I stopped the blows and just watched him shuddering and sighing on the bed covers.

I undressed and joined him. In the afterglow of his Christmas spanking we made sweet and gentle love.

I love this boy as I’ve not ever loved. I know, I know, he is supposed to be a slave, a piece of property contractually owned and nowhere in a slave contract is love required. The Master/slave purists would shake their heads at me, I know. And yet the love is there and without it I couldn’t do what I do. I love him not because
I own him, but rather I own him because I love him. Without it, without the love, I would be only a man who gives pain to and has kinky sex with a boy whom allows me to do such things when he isn’t otherwise serving in more mundane ways. For me anyway it is

better that my slave is also the love of my life.
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Happy New Year, everyone.
Rand

Belting is the use of belts made of strong materials (usually leather) as a whip-like instrument for corporal punishment (see that article for generalities). It is most often associated with educational institutions where it has been used as disciplinary measure but it has also been applied domestically by parents. This practice has now been abolished by most schools, at least in the Western world, as it is seen by many as abusive and excessive punishment.
The punisher might use his own belt (always at hand) or the one worn by the person to be punished, indeed in the mid-19th century many boys were made to wear a belt by their parents, in part to be used as a punishment device and as a permanent reminder; in other cases, especially in an institutional context, a separate belt is kept (e.g. in the head’s office) solely for disciplinary use, and possibly displayed, again as a warning.
The difference with a strapping, although in practice both terms are also used unprecisely as synonyms, is that a strap is harder, made from heavier and/or thicker leather, and may be specially made for discipline and have a handle (notably a prison strap), unlike a ‘real’ belt.
The beating was usually administered to the bare buttocks or back or both of the miscreant youth who bent over furniture or the punisher’s lap. A belt might be used to lash in three ways:
* doubled by holding both ends in one hand, this halves its length (necessary in case of bending over knee or lap) but increases its effective thickness, both making it behave more like a strap;
* single, while holding the buckle or wrapping that around the fist; its weight is reduced which results in softer impact, but its length increased
* least common but most severe, holding the buckle-less end, so that the buckle can ‘bite’ the flesh particularly hard.
In domestic discipline it was mainly used by fathers, while mothers rather used a slipper, or some kitchen utensil.
* The military corporal punishment called sling belting was applied with the soldier’s own musket sling on his bare buttocks
The term is also used figuratively for any beating in general, regardless of the implement (e.g. in Scotland, the tawse, a forked type of strap, was frequently called the belt) or even absence thereof, also in the figurative sense, such as a defeat or similarly unpleasant, painful and/or humiliating (e.g. verbal) treatment, or even an impersonal misfortune that feels as painful, such as a financial loss.

Erotic spanking is the practice of spanking another for the sexual gratification of either or both parties. Erotic spanking is generally regarded as a form of BDSM activity (sadomasochism in particular), although many spanking devotees do not regard it as such.
Many spankings are carried out with the use of bare hands, or with spanking implements such as paddles, straps, hairbrushes, and belts
Sometimes other implements are used for the activity: such as a cane, riding crop, whip, switch (rod), birch, gloves, a ruler or martinet. However, these would not accurately be called spanking. (see Category:Spanking implements). Erotic spankings are commonly combined with other forms of sexual foreplay, such as oral sex, sexual roleplaying and/or ageplay. The most common type of erotic spanking is administered on the bare buttocks, but can also be combined with bondage, in order to heighten sexual arousal and feelings of helplessness in the spankee.

Spanking (or smacking, or less specific terms such as whipping, etc.) is the most used traditional form of physical punishment, consisting in a beating applied on the buttocks.
Spanking, by today’s definition, consists of striking the buttocks, usually as a physical punishment, with either an open hand or various implements including a cane, a belt or strap, various types of whips such as the martinet and the tawse, a switch or other form of rod, a paddle, some curious devices such as the electric so-called spanker and trickster paddling machines, or various household objects designed for other purposes, such as a slipper, a wooden spoon, a bath brush, a wooden ruler or a hairbrush.